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door toneel » do nov 13, 2014 11:10 am
Hello Aleta,
I see you have difficult times.
When you look at the other children with cmp who didn't make it, then you get sad.
When I think about them I 'm scared too.
We do'n't know why Benjamin got cardiomyopathie, so when I'm thinking that it might be a familiar thing I freak out too. I focus on everything that is oke. a part off his heart is not working, but I hardly think about that. I see that he is happy, energetic, doing well at school etc etc.
Please try to see Lara as an individual and how good she is doing now. Try not to listen to and think about all the sad stories everybody tells you. Try to enjoy every dag with her. Your fear ruins your days with Lara and Benjamin. Try to have confidence.
I know that the uncertainty is very hard to live with. But please try to have confidence in the docters, in the protocol and most of all in your daughter. Let her good development give you hope and strenght en let not the bad stories break you down.
Don't let the uncertainty take your live over. This life with all the fear is not good for you and your family.
I know that that is really hard, but please try to focus on everything that is going well. And as I read everything you wrote... al lot things are going very well.
If you need some more support and if you want to talk about it, you can chat with me on facebook again.
give Your children a big hug en and yourself too.
love from Neeltje
groeten Neeltje
een hoopvolle moeder